Solo motherhood: a decision that turns heads, raises eyebrows, and (let’s face it) sometimes earns unsolicited opinions. But for those of us who’ve chosen this path, let me tell you—there’s a whole world of unexpected joys that no one talks about. Solo motherhood isn’t just a backup plan; it’s an empowered, badass move that redefines what family means. And spoiler alert: it’s amazing.

Here are the joys that make solo mums grin while their coupled counterparts secretly think, “Wait… I want that.”

The silly season is here! December brings so many festive joys: summer sunshine, holiday get-togethers, school concerts, gift shopping, and of course, the magic of Christmas with your little ones. For solo mums, this time of year is extra special—and sometimes a little extra busy. But with a few clever hacks and a pinch of holiday cheer, you can rock the season with ease and make it memorable for you and your child(ren).

Here’s your go-to guide to make this season sparkle (without feeling like a Christmas turkey on a hot summer’s day)!