When my father passed away suddenly just before my 38th birthday, my world shifted in a profound way. In that moment of loss, I had a lightbulb moment—one that would change the course of my life forever. I realised that the only thing that truly mattered to me was becoming a mother. I had tried the traditional path to motherhood, but six years after my son was stillborn and marriage ended, I still hadn’t found a relationship with anything close to a future. Time was ticking, and I knew I had what it took to be a mother, but I had to let go of the fairytale ending I had always imagined.

Determined and clear-headed, I made the decision to pursue motherhood on my own terms, using a sperm donor. I had heard of other women who had taken this path, but I didn’t know anyone personally who had done it. The idea of fertility treatments didn’t scare me—after years of infertility struggles during my marriage, I knew what to expect. But what did concern me was the possibility of loneliness. Could I really do it on my own? Financially, mentally, emotionally—would I be able to navigate the challenges of solo motherhood?

To find some semblance of connection and support, I started an Instagram account to document my journey. What began as a personal outlet quickly evolved into something much more—a virtual village of women who were at similar stages of their own journeys. We shared our experiences openly, discussing our fears, our struggles, and our hopes for the future.

This virtual community became a lifeline when my daughter was born—seven weeks into Melbourne's first COVID-19 lockdown. The isolation of motherhood was magnified by the pandemic, but the support I found online was invaluable. Even though I was physically alone, I never felt truly isolated, thanks to the connections I had made with other women who understood exactly what I was going through.

After adjusting to life as a new mum, I couldn’t shake the feeling that there was an opportunity—no, a responsibility—to support other women considering the same path. Unlike me, most women who contemplate becoming a Solo Mum by Choice have never undergone fertility treatment, and the process can be incredibly overwhelming. Beyond the medical aspects, there are also fears about financial stability, mental health, and physical well-being.

That’s when I decided to create Solo Mum Society, starting with the "No Need for Prince Charming" podcast, sharing the stories of Australian women who had chosen to embark on the journey of solo motherhood to inspire others considering this path. Soon after I published my first book, then launched a private Facebook group where women could connect, share stories, and find the support they needed.

Solo Mum Society has grown beyond anything I could have imagined when I first started that Instagram account. It’s not just a support network; it’s a movement—a celebration of the strength, resilience, and love that defines solo mums by choice. Every woman I’ve met on this journey has been incredible, and I am so grateful to have found a community that is as empathetic, non-judgemental, and supportive as I could have ever hoped for.

Solo Mum Society is all about uplifting and empowering women who choose to take on the journey of motherhood solo. We’re not just a resource hub; we’re a community built on support, resilience, and empowerment. Our vision is to redefine family, celebrating the strength and independence of solo mums everywhere.

We’re here to be the go-to place for Solo Mums by Choice. We’re breaking down outdated ideas about what family looks like and making sure every woman feels confident in her decision to become a mother. It’s your choice, and we’re here to back you up every step of the way.

To empower women to create the family of their dreams on their own terms, embracing their strength and resilience through every step of the motherhood journey. We are dedicated to providing unwavering support, from navigating fertility challenges to thriving as a solo mum, and celebrating each woman’s unique path to achieving her ideal life