S4:E3 - Mel & Lou
From IVF Setbacks to Donor Eggs: Mel’s Journey to Solo Motherhood with Lou
Mel’s path to solo motherhood wasn’t straightforward. After struggling with IVF, enduring multiple failed transfers, and facing the emotional toll of infertility, she had to make a life-changing decision—continuing with her own eggs or moving to donor eggs. In this episode, Mel shares how she navigated the mental, emotional, and financial challenges of fertility treatment, why she ultimately chose to import donor eggs into Australia, and what it was like to finally welcome her son, Lou.
If you’re in the trenches of fertility treatment or considering solo motherhood, this episode is packed with insights into IVF realities, donor conception, and how to keep pushing forward when things don’t go as planned.
Key Takeaways:
When to Consider Donor Eggs – Mel’s honest experience of shifting from IVF with her own eggs to donor conception.
The Logistics of Importing Donor Eggs – How she made it happen in Australia and what she wishes she knew sooner.
IVF & Multiple Failed Transfers – The mental and emotional toll of a long fertility journey.
Solo Mum Realities – Balancing work, finances, and raising Lou on her own.
Building a Village – How Mel found her support network, including donor siblings.
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