Cupid Who? Celebrate YOU This Valentine’s Day
Solo Mum’s Guide to Loving the Solo Life This Valentine’s Day—No Partner? No Problem!
Valentine’s Day—the one day of the year when florists double their prices, supermarkets overflow with heart-shaped everything, and people panic-buy last-minute teddy bears. But here’s the thing: love isn’t just about romance. And as a solo mum, you already have one of the greatest loves of all—your incredible little human!
So, if you’re not interested in dating or finding a partner right now, here’s how to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a way that’s fun, fulfilling, and completely drama-free.
1. Be Your Own Secret Admirer
Who needs a mystery suitor when you can treat yourself like the absolute queen you are? Buy yourself the flowers. Order the fancy dessert. Write yourself a cheeky love note (because, let’s be real, you’re doing a damn good job). If no one’s going to spoil you, spoil yourself.
2. Host a Galentine’s Night In—Because Love is Love!
Forget awkward dinner dates—you know what’s better? A house full of your people, laughing, snacking, and celebrating life together. Invite some girlfriends over, pop some bubbles (or set up a hot chocolate bar), and enjoy a night of connection. Go all out with games, movies, or an epic cheese board. Best part? No one’s judging if you’re in your PJs by 9 PM.
3. Mummy & Me Valentine’s Date
Your child is your ultimate plus-one, so why not plan a cute little date together? Have a "fancy" dinner (aka heart-shaped nuggets and a pink milkshake), do some Valentine’s crafts, or have a dance party in your living room. Bonus: your date won’t ghost you, and they’ll think you’re the most amazing person ever.
4. Swipe Right on Self-Care
Instead of wasting time scrolling through dating apps, swipe right on YOU. Run a bubble bath, binge-watch trashy reality TV, or curl up with that book you’ve been meaning to read. Self-care is sexy, and nothing says "I love myself," like cancelling all responsibilities for the evening.
5. Buy Yourself a Damn Gift
You don’t need a partner to give you something special—grab yourself a little (or big) present just because. Maybe it’s a new lipstick, a cosy robe, or that ridiculously overpriced scented candle that makes your house feel like a spa. Whatever it is, make it fabulous—because YOU are.
Final Thought: You’re Already Winning at Love
Romance is optional, but loving yourself? Non-negotiable. This Valentine’s Day, forget the pressure and just focus on what makes you feel good. Whether that’s cuddling your kiddo, treating yourself, gathering your besties, or ignoring the whole day altogether—do it your way. Because honestly? You’re already living a love story that’s worth celebrating. 💖
How are you planning on celebrating Valentines Day this year? Or is it just another day?
